इस फेमस सिंगर ने उठाया चाइल्ड सेक्सुअल एब्यूज का मुद्दा, बताया-इवेंट में हुईं शोषण का शिकार…
चेन्नई: गायिका चिन्मयी श्रीपदा ने कई ट्वीट कर चाइल्ड एब्यूज का मसला उठाया है. इस दौरान उन्होंने ये भी बताया कि वे कुछ दिन पहले एक समारोह में शारीरिक शोषण का शिकार हुई हैं. उनके इस पोस्ट के बाद कई फैंस, जिनमें पुरुष और महिलाएं दोनों शामिल हैं, ने अपनी सेक्सुअल एब्यूज की स्टोरीज शेयर की हैं. इन लोगों ने बताया है कि वे काफी उम्र में शोषण का शिकार हुए हैं.
क्या कहा चिन्मयी ने
चिन्मयी ने ट्वीट किया, After almost aeons I got groped at an event yesterday. I happened to share this story on Instagram and what shocked me is how many men and women have been molested as children (teachers, brothers, co passengers, uncles, grandparents and even women).
After almost aeons I got groped at an event yesterday. I happened to share this story on Instagram and what shocked me is how many men and women have been molested as children (teachers, brothers, co passengers, uncles, grandparents and even women)
— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
Most common places – Their own home, public transport, places of worship, educational institutions.
Most girls and boys haven’t mustered the strength to share it with their family and friends coz no one would believe it.
Even if girls have a chance of being heard, men have NONE— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
Men are shamed if they share an account of sexual assault/molestation during childhood. Women who gathered the courage to share have been blamed “she enjoyed it”. Imagine grown adults accusing a child of enjoying sexual assault. And other seemingly sane adults believing it.
— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
चिन्मयी ने लोगों से अपील की कि वे शोषण का शिकार बच्चों की मदद करें.
Not to mention – women shaming other women who have been molested/harassed. And commenting on ‘you dress/look like that you are asking for it’
I think women need to be trained first on victim blaming and shaming.— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
Girls are afraid of telling their parents that they ll made to stay at home and would be stopped from going to work/study.
I believed things changed based on my own circle of fantastic men and women.
Not so, clearly.— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
Please – stop shaming the victims, their lipstick, hair, skin colour, clothes, attitude, talent, intelligence, whatever.
Boys are at an equal risk of sexual abuse. Many are traumatised for life.
Please understand they need the support as well.
Dont shame. Thank you.— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
As for victims – speak up, yell, slap those who touch you without your consent.
When groped we are temporarily stunned into silence – including me. This is usually the window the assaulter uses to his advantage.
Finally, it is NOT your fault. Be kind on yourself. Love yourself.— Chinmayi Sripaada (@Chinmayi) March 12, 2018
उन्होंने ये भी कहा कि लड़के भी सेक्सुअल एब्यूज का शिकार होने के खतरे की जद में होते हैं. आप सब समझें कि उन्हें सपोर्ट की जरूरत है.